Dad died on my birthday in 2014. Was there any significance in that? Was it a warning of some sort? A weird coincidence? Those thoughts have been among the many as I wish Dad a happy birthday, in Heaven. I know Dad is in heaven because he was saved through the grace of God, because his wife was”Born Again.”
1 Corinthians 7:14 English Standard Version (ESV) 14 For the unbelieving husband is made holy because of his wife, and the unbelieving wife is made holy because of her husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy.
Dad was not unbelieving but he was not pure either. See, I know without a doubt of his happiness with Mom as they rise each morning in each other’s arms. They had a strong love for one another while here on earth. They imparted knowledge and goodness in the hearts of their children. They now care for each other the day long while they go about their tasks.
Dad was also taught the crudeness of this world at a young age (thirteen) and worked nearly everyday until his death at age eighty-four. He loved work and that’s what he did his whole life…Saturday, Sunday, it made no difference to him and as a matter-of-fact seven days a week were best. He had to quit school and get a job after his parochial days had come to an end. An eighth grade education. No high school.
Dad couldn’t understand people retiring, “What the hell do they do all day?”
He passed life-lessons on to those who would listen and did so in in a lighthearted way. Dad had a grand understanding of the way of the world. That understanding left his heart stained and blocked God from working real blessings in his life. He was a good man. Dad’s integrity was unshakable, fair and just.
He made many happy customers from all walks of life – and through each business he owned. He was never a pretentious man. He made many friends and associates through his, home decorating services, and carpet store. Long after most of his colleagues and friends had either retired or died – our dad bought and turned a doomed restaurant into a success, his age, eighty-one.
Dad possessed the Midas touch and was successful with his decorating business – his carpet store – and his restaurant. The latter was his ruin; in part for wanting to care for everybody. Bothered greatly that he was unable to assuage everybody’s problems, he went to be with Dorothy in Heaven.
Though raised a Catholic (was even an altar boy at Saint Pat’s) he turned on the Catholic faith because of what he and his eventual wife (Dorothy) were told by the priest before marrying. When the priest told Dad that he had to sign a paper pledging to raise their children in that faith…Dad would not do it. He wouldn’t allow anybody to tell him how to raise his kids, not yet here.
Me and my siblings knew of the parent’s sincerity to each other. They were just two young kids starting out. Doing the best they knew how and even with their foibles they were exceptional parents, always setting a good example. When Mom or Dad had a hard time with anything at all, it was each other they looked to, and received their comfort from.
Happy Birthday, Dad!
My beautiful mother –